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Gottman Relationship Worksheets & Handouts

Tools For Repairing Communication

Using "I Feel Statements" Reference

Helps reduce communication:

  • Criticism

  • Outburst

  • & Avoidance

Complete Guide to Avoiding Unhealthy Communication

  • Criticism

  • Defensiveness

  • Contempt 

  • Stonewalling 

Complete Guide on How to be a Great Listener

After Fighting Repair Reference

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Complete Guide to After Fighting Repair

How to Calm Your Emotions - Called Self-Soothe

Tools For Creating Intimacy

Sound Relationship House

Relationship Rituals

Acts of Love Jar

Charting Your Love Maps - Simple

One of the core principles for a happy marriage.

Gratitude Journal

Build connection with your spouse by showing gratitude. 

24 Date Ideas

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Recommended Gottman Books

I have read every book that I am recommending below. Each book approaches the problems of marriage and how to make them work in different ways.

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The Principles Include

  • Know spouses love map

  • Have fondness for spouse

  • Turn towards spouse

  • Influence decisions

  • Conflict will happen

  • Can get gridlocked 

  • Can have different meaning in marriage

For a brief summary of the book CLICK HERE

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The Love Prescription Includes

  • Connecting

  • Talking like your dating

  • Tell them what you need

  • Have regular date nights

  • Say thank you

  • Give compliments

  • And touch your spouse

​Love is more than a feeling, it is a choice.

For a brief summary of the book CLICK HERE

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A must read for married and dating men of all ages. 

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Gottman Videos

The Defensive Criticism Dance

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John Gottman's studies have shown the ability to predict divorce with a 94% accuracy. The four characteristics that are typically present include:

  1. Criticism

  2. Defensiveness

  3. Contempt

  4. Stonewalling

 Roommate Syndrome

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Bids for Love

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Love Bank 5:1

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